Netflix’s true-crime documentaries have a recognizable sheen to them—the streamer even launched a comedy collection mocking its tackle the style. But its newest hit, The Good Neighbor, takes a special tack. Not like the typical true-crime doc, the movie doesn’t depend on soapy reenactments and first-person accounts to piece collectively its story: a Black girl’s homicide by her white neighbor in 2023, which rocked a tight-knit Florida neighborhood. As an alternative, it leans on primary-source materials culled from physique cameras and interrogation rooms. The unvarnished strategy stands out among the many flashier titles in Netflix’s catalog—a lot in order that it grew to become fodder for a Saturday Evening Dwell spoof final night time. Utilizing that very same system, it probed a special, extra mundane subject: the division of family labor.
The sketch was a trailer for an imagined forthcoming Netflix true-crime docuseries referred to as Gone With out a Hint, which tracked three males rattled by their wives’ sudden disappearance. This week’s host, Miles Teller, and the forged members Ben Marshall and Kenan Thompson performed the bereaved husbands; they retold their model of occasions via a mix of sit-down interviews and security-camera recordings. The idea concerned direct nods to The Good Neighbor’s use of real-time footage—notably a second the place Teller’s character, Doug, paced round his entrance porch whereas talking with physique cam–sporting cops.
Through a collection of “never-before-seen interviews” with the lads’s companions—performed by Veronika Slowikowska, Ashley Padilla, and Sarah Sherman—we quickly realized that these spouses hadn’t been kidnapped in any respect. As an alternative, two of the ladies had been touring. (“I had instructed Doug about it possibly 45 occasions,” Slowikowska’s exasperated character stated.) Sherman’s character had essentially the most absurd story of the bunch: She occurred to simply be within the toilet for some time. With their wives away for a spell, the husbands swiftly unraveled at dwelling. “Whoever took her left a bunch of cryptic notes,” a stupefied Doug stated. The sketch then lower to an indoor security-cam shot of him studying Submit-its caught to the fridge. They instructed him tips on how to warmth up meals and end the laundry, prompting him to cry out to the presumed kidnapper placing him to work, “Is that this a recreation to you?”
The boys’s utter dopiness was performed for laughs, but the true-crime framework shrewdly animated a deeper dialogue about what’s turn into generally known as the “psychological load”: the unstated work that ladies in heterosexual partnerships too typically tackle for his or her family. Research carried out in recent times have proven that ladies in heterosexual {couples} predominantly tackle the brunt of home duties—managing the household’s calendar, unloading the dishwasher, feeding pets. This isn’t to say that males don’t contribute to the family in any respect; quite, analysis means that some males aren’t cognizant of their companions’ frustration, as the ladies silently project-manage their dwelling lives. Typically, because the sketch underscored, the lads received’t understand it till they’re left to fend for themselves.
The SNL parody by no means mentions the phenomenon by identify, however doing so wasn’t essential to get the purpose throughout. The ladies defined to viewers that they’d not solely instructed their husbands the place they had been going however had additionally reminded them of it consistently. The true-crime trappings supplied a pointed software for presenting proof that contradicted the husbands’ oblivious assertions. One spouse had marked her work journey on a calendar by circling, starring, and including arrows clearly pointing to the dates she can be away. Padilla’s character supplied essentially the most blistering instance: She entrusted her befuddled husband, performed by Thompson, with dealing with little one care alone. “I simply want I may have ready myself,” he stated in an interview. “However there was no manner I may have identified.” The sketch then lower to a recording of Padilla’s character, luggage in hand, repeatedly telling her husband that she can be visiting her sister upstate.
In satirizing some girls’s impressions of their male companions’ cluelessness as a high-stakes matter, SNL subtly commented on these fraught home dynamics. Mimicking The Good Neighbor was a cheekily zeitgeist-y maneuver—a solution to illustrate, as is the case in lots of true-crime docs, how these males failed to acknowledge the warning indicators earlier than their supposed tragedies struck. Extra harrowing nonetheless: The husbands refused to discover ways to, say, look after the children and make Cup Noodles with out lighting the home on hearth. They as an alternative resigned themselves immediately, as if ready for his or her companion to supply them another reminder to do essentially the most primary of chores.